compassionate caring in the catholic tradition
The St. Brigid Bereavement Ministry has compiled a series of bulletin articles covering topics related to a peace-filled journey home to God. Those articles are available here:
Bereavement Article #1 - Death is not the end - A Peaceful Journey Home to God
Bereavement Article #2 - USCCB Resource on Palliative Care & Hospice
Bereavement Article #1 - Death is not the end - A Peaceful Journey Home to God (printable pdf version here):
This is the first in a series of bulletin articles covering topics related to a peace-filled journey home to God. Topics we will address include end-of-life directives, pre-planning a funeral, cremation, Catholic funeral rites, eulogies, liturgical music, and signs and symbols at funerals. This first article focuses on why and how to schedule a Funeral Mass or Memorial Service.
Why choose a Catholic funeral? The Catholic funeral Mass provides hope at what is often one of the saddest moments in our lives. It provides a time and place for ALL to gather, pray for the soul of the departed, and receive support, comfort, and consolation through faith and remembrance of our loved one. For Catholics, it connects our grief to the rich traditions of the Church and the hope of eternal life.
When you have experienced a death of a beloved family member, the task of making arrangements can seem overwhelming. The faith community here at St. Brigid Parish will guide you and walk with you in your time of need. At the time of death, the family should contact their funeral home of choice. The funeral director will call the church office (Our Lady of Humility or St. Patrick Church) and arrange the day and time for the funeral Mass or Memorial Service. The church office staff will email the Bereavement Ministry, a member of whom will call the family to meet and plan the details of the funeral Mass. If there is no funeral home involved, the family should call the church office directly to schedule the Mass.
The Church, through its funeral rites, commends the dead to God’s mercy, love, and forgiveness of sins. Death is not the end, for “If, then we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with him”. (Romans 6:8).
Bereavement Article #2 - USCCB Resource on Palliative Care & Hospice (printable pdf version here):
As Catholics we are called to respect, defend, love and serve life, every human life. The Church reminds us of our obligation to “readily accompany those in the critical and terminal stages of life, for all are called to give witness at the side of the sick person.”
Palliative care is specialized medical care for people with serious illness, focusing on relief from symptoms and stress while they are still seeking curative treatment. While palliative care cannot entirely eradicate suffering from people’s lives, it provides an authentic expression of human and Christian care—allowing us to “remain” at the side of a suffering person, as the Blessed Mother and the beloved disciple remained at the foot of the Cross.
It is morally permissible to decide against disproportionate treatments that would provide only a precarious or painful extension of life. The refusal of extraordinary means of care expresses acceptance of the human condition, but it does not seek to hasten death.
Therefore, the suspension of disproportionate therapies must never entail the withdrawal of basic care—including pain relief, hydration, nutrition, thermoregulation, etc. Such refusal of ethically required care is equivalent to a direct action or omission to bring about death and is therefore never morally permissible.
Hospice care is a type of palliative care but with a particular acknowledgement of, and focus on, the patient’s approaching end of life—when the goal of care is no longer the cure of the disease but rather comfort and relief from it.
The mystery of the redemption of the human person is rooted in the loving involvement of God with human suffering. The sick and dying should be provided with proper pastoral care (including Anointing of the Sick) so they may persevere in sanctifying grace and die in the love of God.
Helpful links:
samaritanus-bonus-witness-good-samaritan.pdf
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